Today’s Tip: How?To Kiss Properly & Passionately
As a general rule the first thing to remember is that it should be a mutual feeling to kiss someone. If you lean in for the kiss and?your partner?slightly turns their head, or pull away- you better be aiming for a kiss on the cheek. If they seem uncomfortable?lighten the mood and start talking about?something else. If there are signs that they want to be kissed by you, you’ll know, and when that time comes you need to be prepared in order to kiss properly & passionately.
To start, one important notion is to stay polite – (especially on a first date) meaning don’t put your hands all over the other person but don’t let them dangle at your sides either. You want?start out by?putting your hands in?approved places. For example, you can caress their shoulder, you can hold their hand (if sitting in a car) you can put your hands on your?partner’s hips, etc. The most popular?position is for the hands to?hold your partner’s face with your hands on their cheeks and their neck, or wrap your arms around your partner in an embrace. But how to kiss properly & passionately is even more important than knowing where to put your hands during a kiss.?Once you get a taste of kissing you will never want to stop. Remember practice makes perfect! Everybody kisses?differently, and each person enjoys different things in a kiss because there is no “right way” to kiss. What separates good kissers from bad kissers is?their ability to read?their partner’s body language and be responsive to their partner.? Good kissing requires give-and-take, so read your partner?s body language and pay attention to clues (i.e.?a sigh, smile, giggle) that tells you you?re doing something he or she likes.
Let your partner kiss you back, and move with him or her as long as you?re comfortable with what he or she is doing. If they begin kissing you back with increased intensity, realize that they are responding with fervor, this means you’re doing a good job! Passion is an intense desire so make sure you display that in your kiss!?Start by tilting your head or angling your face-no sense in smashing noses to lock lips! Next, go slow, breathe, and remember to pay attention to hear, see, feel what your partner is doing. Do they seem like they are enjoying the kiss? Are they kissing you back? Are they using their hands to touch you or to pull away? Most people like to close their eyes to kiss someone -because they feel safe, comfortable, and want to focus on their affectionate feelings (and of course there’s the whole not wanting blurry vision aspect too). Others like to open their eyes periodically to see their partner for a more intimate connection (mass appeal of visual stimulation in addition to the touch/taste factors going on between their lips!)
One important note for kissing properly & passionately, know your types of kisses. For example, the French Kiss – the kiss involving the tongues. Some?people say this is the?”Soul Kiss” because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth’s breath in the exchange across tongues. The French Kiss is an open mouth kiss, which starts out VERY slowly, then gradually as the intensity of the kiss builds up from pressure against lips, sighing, moaning, etc. you can slowly open your lips a little. Do not start by French Kissing someone until you’ve learned how to properly kiss closed mouth. Again, kissing in general and especially moving to French Kissing should be a shared decision – mutual approval on both ends.?
If you’re unsure if your partner is comfortable with it, (do not interrupt and ask?them) carefully open your lips slowly and just a little bit, so that during the kiss one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking lips, lightly brush your tongue against your partner’s lips. This?will alert your partner that you want to French kiss them. If your partner’s tongue does not respond in the same manner or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.
When both you and your partner seem to be enjoying the open-mouth kiss, slowly open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little further into their mouth. Do not stick your tongue too far into?your partner’s?mouth, it is inappropriate and a?HUGE turn-off. They will not appreciate having your tongue going down their throat. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues. Start lightly. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act of touching your partner’s tongue with your own will be very stimulating.Usually, if the other person wants more, they will come and get it. Passionate kisses are most intensified when the appropriate timing of breathing, touching, exploring happens. The French Kiss is the most passionate kiss to build up anticipation. This is why making out is one of everyone’s favorite things to do-when it’s done right. Good Luck & Enjoy 🙂
**Attention Guys: Girls Love Romance and Kissing is a Major Part of Romance!!! Perfect your passionate kisses!!